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Children’s Arrangements

Clear, child‑focused
arrangements.

We help you move forward with structure and clarity — whether you’re trying to reach agreement, want arrangements made legally binding, or court is likely. You don’t need to know which route applies. We’ll help you identify the right next step.

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What We Cover

Children’s matters we advise on

Children’s matters are often the most emotionally charged part of a separation. Our approach is to focus on what is in the best interests of the child, while making sure your position and rights are clearly understood and properly represented.

  • Child Arrangements Orders (where a child lives and who they spend time with)
  • Parenting plans — practical, written agreements
  • Relocation within the UK or abroad
  • Prohibited Steps Orders and Specific Issue Orders
  • Safeguarding concerns and emergency applications
  • International child abduction and Hague Convention cases
  • Parental responsibility disputes
  • Enforcement of existing orders
Our Approach

Child-first, always

Courts in England & Wales make decisions based on the welfare of the child as the paramount consideration. We structure our advice around the same principle — helping you understand what is likely to be considered, what a court would expect to see, and how to present your position clearly.

Where possible, we encourage constructive approaches — direct negotiation, mediation, or solicitor-led discussions — to avoid the cost, delay, and emotional toll of contested court proceedings.

Your Options

Three routes forward

01

Reaching Agreement

Best if

You think agreement is possible, but communication is difficult or support is needed.

What we do

  • Solicitor-led negotiation and structured support
  • Mediation or other appropriate ADR
  • Practical, child-focused proposals
  • Written parenting plan drafted and agreed

Outcome

A workable agreement built around your child’s needs.

Based on complexity and route.
02

Make Agreement Legally Binding

Best if

You’ve reached agreement and want certainty going forward.

What we do

  • Review the agreed arrangements
  • Prepare the Child Arrangements Order application
  • Submit to court for approval
  • Ongoing advice on implementation

Outcome

A legally binding court order based on what you’ve agreed.

Fixed fees available — contact us for a quote.
03

Court Route

Best if

Agreement isn’t possible, or there are safety or welfare concerns.

What we do

  • Strategy and case management from the outset
  • Prepare the application and supporting evidence
  • Negotiations alongside the court timetable
  • Representation where agreed

Outcome

A court-determined Child Arrangements Order.

Final costs depend on complexity and number of hearings.
Relocation

Moving with your child

  • Within the UK

    If there is a Child Arrangements Order in place specifying that a child lives with you, you can generally move within England & Wales without permission. However, if the move significantly affects the other parent’s contact, they may apply to court. We can advise on the implications of a planned move and help you manage the process correctly.

  • Abroad

    Relocating abroad with a child is a significant legal step. You generally need the written consent of everyone with parental responsibility, or a court order (a Specific Issue Order). Taking a child abroad without consent can constitute child abduction. We advise on relocation applications and, where necessary, international child abduction cases under the Hague Convention.

Urgent safeguarding concerns

If you have urgent concerns about your child’s safety or welfare, legal protection is available quickly. Emergency applications — including Prohibited Steps Orders and emergency injunctions — can be made to the court, sometimes on the same day. Contact us as soon as possible and we will advise on the right immediate steps.

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Questions

Common questions

What is a Child Arrangements Order?

A court order that sets out where a child lives and how they spend time with each parent or other significant adult. It can be made by consent (if you agree) or determined by the court if you don’t.

Do we have to go to court?

Not always. Most cases require a Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting (MIAM) before court. Many resolve through agreement, solicitor-led negotiation, or mediation — without contested proceedings.

What if I’m worried about my child’s safety?

Speak to us as soon as possible. Emergency applications including Prohibited Steps Orders or non-molestation orders can be made urgently — sometimes the same day — if there’s a real risk of harm.

Can I take my child abroad?

For a holiday, generally yes — but you usually need the written consent of everyone with parental responsibility (or a court order). For relocation, the bar is higher and a Specific Issue Order may be required.

What is parental responsibility?

The legal rights, duties and responsibilities a parent has in respect of a child — including making decisions about education, medical treatment, and religion. Mothers have it automatically; fathers in certain circumstances or by agreement / court order.

Can arrangements be changed later?

Yes. Arrangements can be varied by agreement at any time, or you can apply to court if circumstances change significantly — for example a move, change of school, or evolving needs as the child grows.

What is a Prohibited Steps Order?

A court order that prevents a parent from taking a particular step without the court’s consent — such as removing the child from the country, changing their school, or changing their surname.

What happens if the other parent doesn’t follow the order?

Enforcement options include applying to court for an enforcement order, unpaid work, fines, or compensation orders. We’ll advise on the most proportionate route and gather the evidence required.

Ready to move forward?

Get clarity in one hour.

A Strategy Session with SKB Law is a focused, solicitor-led meeting. You’ll leave with a clear picture of where you stand, your options, and a written action plan.